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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hey guys, thank you for all your feedback. DD talked to “friend” last night, and “friend” said she had no problem with DD. Although, today it seemed to have gotten worse as “friend” has completely disregarded her. DD came home crying. Planning on having a movie night today with the recommended shows you all have given. What are the next steps possible to take? Should I do something or let her handle it? [/quote]

That sounds like such a pick me. What does it mean the friend has completely disregarded her? It’s sounds like such a needy interaction to discuss if anyone has a problem with her. That’s not a reason to come home trying. You getting so involved in her teen relationships is not a good thing.[/quote]

I’m OP, and by disregard I meant ignored DD all day after both of them agreeing they did not have problems. Then, proceeded to invite the whole friend group to watch a movie tonight in front of DD. Say what you want, but I do not think being left out in your face is being a pick me. [/quote]

Both you and your daughter need to understand that nobody owes her anything. Having a conversation the night before, doesn’t mean the girl is obligated to hang out with your daughter if she doesn’t want to.

If they make plan in front of the daughter either she should ask if she can join, or read the room, maybe she lingering too much where she’s not wanted.

Friendships change, especially in middle school, the other girls are not “bad” they don’t like her. Regardless, she needs to move on and find friends that she connects with.[/quote]

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