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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How much do you weigh and how tall are you?

I also have 3 kids (11, 9 and 5) and it took a lot longer to lose the weight from kid 3. And I am still probably 20 pounds heavier than when I got married and 10 pounds heavier than when I started having kids. But I am 5’7” and 145 and am 42 years old. I don’t really have it in me to heavily diet anymore. I walk a lot and don’t look really overweight so I just stopped caring. [/quote]

This is OP and I look overweight, I think in no small part because I’m short and busty with wide-ish shoulders.  I’m still an hourglass - my waist is smaller than my bust and hips, which are the same circumference - but it’s big (like 35 inches). I never had a tiny waist but it was 28-30 inches before, after second kid.  I’m 5’3 and 175 pounds.  I know DCUM will say it’s impossible that I was thin/small at 145 at this height but I really and truly am exceptionally muscular.  Even now, I am not flabby, my mass has just expanded :sob:

All of that to say, I look okay, but I would feel so much more comfortable in my body even twenty pounds less than I am now. 
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Just to say I trust you OP when you say that you were thin/small at 145 because you were very muscular. I am the exact opposite, I look flabby at a much much lower weight because I am not muscular and I am very frustrated when dcum tells me I must be  hallucinating. Some people do not understand how different body types can be.[/quote]

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