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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sorry you’re getting the hate here, OP. I’m also a single mom who has kids with a man I didn’t marry, people here have a hard time understanding not everyone follows the traditional route and that life happens.

Anyway, I would just ask him directly what he meant by it and ask if he sees you that way, as “less valuable”. I’d be very upset over this type of comment - it’s valid to not want to date a single mom, but assigning value to a person based on their children is pretty gross. There’s a lot of really great men out there and no sense in wasting your time and energy on someone who sees you as less worthy. [/quote]

I am a divorced mom with two kids. I have written the last several comments. She has made a massive mistake buying property without being married. Also, she should not marry this guy. Also, engagement for three years itself is a red flag. She will lose money on selling but she should because she should not marry this guy.

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PP. maybe those things are true, but she didn’t ask about those, she asked about his comment.

Personally I think it’s a smart idea for women to not get married. I was happy I was able to get out quickly, rather than deal with the hassle of a divorce. And if it turns out he isn’t a great guy (since OP mentioned some other concerns), even better she’s not married and can end things easily.[/quote]

I agree not to get married IF you are not buying property together or have kids living with you!!! She is doing married stuff first without being married. The property thing is especially dumb.

I advise younger women to never marry and be a single mom by choice if you want kids. She is in a situation where she is doing married stuff while not being married, which is an entirely different situation.[/quote]

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