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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Separated from my cheating ex at 38 years old. Moved into my own place and I’m slowly setting it up. I casually browse dating apps to gingerly see what’s out there.

I am being very careful and cautious and only having video calls with men who message me. So far from the men I’ve talked to:

- one has 3 children and is separated from his wife 
- one was a 45 year old lawyer who didn’t ask me a single question about me 
- one was a 41 year old engineer who was nice but so socially awkward he was shaking and sweating 
- lots of men who just want sex

I’ve not met anyone and this is only through video chats…but wow. Is there anyone decent left? [/quote]

Now consider how all those men are viewing you. 
Divorced and you left the marriage (big red flag for most men, says you aren't commitment type)
What do you do for a job? Notice you mentioned two professions like they were good or big money. They will notice that about you and think you a gold digger high off that divorce money and wanting to find another next-ex-husband. 
Why video chats? That's more pressure than meeting in person, as nobody looks good on a hand held camera phone, you are selling yourself short doing that. [/quote]

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