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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"I have an issue with it. I feel like it gives DH a skewed perception of how sexually adventurous most married women with kids are"

Your husband doesn't have a porn problem, he has a warped sense of human sexuality between regular people. Watching porn has nothing to do with actually being interested in going to a sex hotel takeover or going to a sex resort. An "In Real Life" action like visiting one of these places takes the "viewer" out of the fantasy/not at all real world into something completely different from "at a distance" porn.

Most men who would freak out at the thought of anyone else seeing their wife naked or having sex with her in front of them.

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But don’t you think that watching porn can give you a warped sense of human sexuality between regular people?  I get that this is DH’s particular thing.  But if your wife won’t do something that you want her to do and then you go online and watch dozens of videos of women doing the thing your wife won’t do with *their* husbands, doesn’t that change how you feel about your wife?  How could it not?[/quote]

It certainly can be illuminating when you discover that “things your spouse is willing to do” and “things that appear in porn” have almost no overlap. [/quote]

Don’t you think that if this is the case, then maybe porn isn’t good for your marriage?

I feel like this is the equivalent of these instagram reels where a handsome man looks in your eyes and says that your husband should express his feelings during an argument.  You watch these for 10 minutes a day, and pretty soon you are convinced that your spouse sucks. [/quote]

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