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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP isn't looking at the long term. If you fight this it won't work and what will happen is he will fly his mother over with a nanny as well or another relative and you will never get your kid more than 50% of the time.

If you don't fight it you end up with extra time with your kid when you say you are willing to take your child when he travels.

Then after 3 years when your child is a teen they can tell a judge they want to be with you and you can then fight for more custody and child support. . [/quote]

OP here and everything in this thread pisses me off. But there are some bits of advice that are very, very good, and this point about the nanny is one of them. Thank you for thinking of this.

Going to go stew about how messed up it is that our kid’s time and childhood can be given away to people who aren’t even their parents in the name of some pretend version of 50/50 when an actual parent is available. [/quote]

I know it's messed up but I'd rather have my kid with their grandmother than a new girlfriend/wife.[/quote]

Op can leave the kid with a boufriend or stepfather too. Goes both ways. [/quote]

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