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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP- I reached out to DH's sibling, to see how they were coping through it all, and asked them too if maybe we can all ask grandparents for some sort of help. And they laughed, and laughed, and laughed. Said that I was insane to even think that. That under no circumstances would they ask ILs for help, that they deserve to live however they want. I asked, "but don't you feel sad that they are not helping your or us in any way?" Their divorce is bad, messy custody battle. And again, they told me "it's my life, I'll deal with it, and so should you and my brother." Apparently, their relationship with ILs is just fine.

I didn't grow up that way. We were poor but we were at least kind to each other. These people are cold. [/quote]

And you are lazy and immature.  You and your DH need to work.[/quote]

we are really trying. He applied to so many jobs. I can only work part-time; my old employer doesn't need part-timers and I tried getting jobs elsewhere. Rejections suck. [/quote]
With your husband not working you can work FT. You can work nights and weekends even if he was working. Drop the PT excuse. Restaurants everywhere are desperate for workers, you have no excuse to not be working. [/quote]

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