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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.

It's my wife visiting her dad. And yes it is every Sunday. I meant it has been every other Sunday we have had since May.

I know it is the stage of life because I see it all round us with our friends. My parents died when I was young (mother at 14, father at 25) so this sin't something my wife has had to accomodate, or ever will.

Honestly, just the recognition that I'm rowing the boat for her while she deals with her dad is all I'm looking for.[/quote]

Make your life manageable and don’t be a martyr. Ask your wife is she plans to visit her father every Saturday? And what things would change in your life to accommodate that. I would scale back to only what I could manage (happily) by myself.

Also you need a much broader view than thinking your wife will have to accommodate your parents. Obviously she won’t but she will have to accommodate so many other things in your life together. [/quote]

Outsource the cleaning and grocery.  And rehome the pets.  Humans before pets. [/quote]

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