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[quote=Anonymous]It sounds like the main thing STBX did wrong was either being confused or being too cowardly to admit that he was done. Maybe he thought saying “trial separation” would soften it. It sounds like he was after of her anger. Which is cowardly. But also raises the question of whether she has anger issues that made it tough for him to be honest with her about his feelings.

It is also possible he genuinely was conflicted and did not know what he wanted, and started dating while separated (which he was up front in saying he would do), and that he gradually realized he just did not want to return to the marriage. Painful for her, and not an ideal way to handle things, but this doesn’t make him an awful human, just a regular imperfect confused person.

And OP do not beat yourself up for your anger. It is completely normal. But go punch a pillow or take boxing lessons and punch the heck out of a heavy bag. Dont let your anger control you. And don’t call his GF or trash talk him to the kids.

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