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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. The abuse is escalating and impacting my children. When it was just me I handled it to try for them, but it’s now what my therapist says is one of the worst abuse cases she’s seen someone try to deal with. I don’t want to go into details, but the abuse is serious. I have documented items that the women’s abuse shelter attorney says could get me a retraining order and use of the house but it’s temporary and I’d prefer to find something more solid for my kids than bouncing them around. I’m trying to organize everything to leave but I don’t have access to marital funds. There’s significant equity in the house but not quickly accessible either. I am fine with my financial quality of life decreasing, but I also want a safe environment for my children and school is very important. I don’t want a huge house, small and modest is fine as long as I have access to quality schools. [/quote] OP I am divorced. My ex wife cheated on me and she filed for divorce. Abuse is a red line. Please safely leave. I hope some qualified people here can guide how to do so. I am struggling financially but my mental health is great. I'm glad I left my marriage and mine was not as bad as yours. She just betrayed me. But you are getting physically and verbally abused please take care of yourself. Also make sure he doesn't know you are playing on here. [/quote]
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