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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t think this is necessarily unusual, but as I’ve gotten older (I’m a 40F), I’m basically only attracted to 6/6/6/8+ men. At least 6 feet, 6 pack, 6 figures, and 8 inches. And they need to have a muscular 6 pack, not deathly skinny 6 pack.

I don’t know why. In my 20s and 30s I was attracted to a wide range of men, short, fat, broke, etc. But now I can’t do it.[/quote]

It’s an unfortunate attraction, because you’re less and less likely to attract this type of man yourself. [/quote]

I’ve actually been attracting more of them. When I was younger I was too intimidated by them, despite being very attractive myself. Now I see myself as their equal, I make just as much money as they do, and I get a lot of interest from attractive men who don’t want their own kids and would prefer stepkids (which there are a surprising number of). Also helps that I’m a lot of fun and plan good dates! I have a date with a cute one tonight. [/quote]

A “man who prefers step kids”- honestly this might be a phrase that’s never been spoken. Is that what they tell you? [/quote]

PP. Usually they say they’re open to step kids, adoption, etc. Obviously there’s some self-selection going on; men who want bio kids aren’t swiping right on me.

But overall they’re great guys, many were raised by stepfathers or adopted. One guy I dated recently was raised by his stepfather and said for him, love isn’t based on biology. His stepdad was a great guy, a judge, and his mom was a single mom with 4 kids, they married and he raised them like his own kids. They were still all very close and spent lots of time together, vacations, etc.

The other type of man I’ve dated who wants stepkids are guys who either grew up in massive families and cared for younger siblings/cousins/etc, or they worked with kids (such as teachers) and they know kids and especially the early years aren’t for them. So stepkids are more ideal, they get the fun later years and not all the responsibilities. [/quote]

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