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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I read this as op and her husband both being stubborn asses who dug their heels in on an argument. Just because op is a women doesn’t give her some higher better voice on a misogynist song. You guys have toxicity and both should have dropped this. Shame on you both for bringing your kids into it. [/quote]

+1 It’s interesting that everyone is siding with the OP. I think it’s was a meaningless argument that was really just a receptacle for their anger/vitriol toward each other. The content was irrelevant - I mean, I get that it didn’t feel that way to them because they were both pretty wound up - but it’s likely that under the surface they were arguing about something deeper or more historic in their relationship. Disagreeing about the meaning of a song devolved into slinging insults at each other (and I personally believe that all art is subjective, no matter what the artist’s intended meaning).

Update: Okay, I just re-read the OP to gut-check myself and I do have to admit that the DH starting with “you women” was pretty hostile/baiting. I would’ve called my DH out on that. But it seems to have gotten buried under the back-and-forth argument about who was right, when the bigger issue is about communication.

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