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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here- even with the projections and insults, I do appreciate the responses. I’m going to give my BIL and his family space for the foreseeable future and not reach out or be offended. As far as DH, how he communicates with them is on him, but if he visits again in the next year, I’m going to do something else. I’m going to let them work whatever this is about out on their own.[/quote] you weren't reaching out--your husband was. so this isn't a change. but if you want to stay away from the family that's on you. Don't be offended if they are more willing to get together without you there; it's just a data point that they see you as the problem.[/quote] It is a change, as I make hotel reservations and purchase food for these visits for everyone. I am going to stop doing that and stop attending if my husband makes plans otherwise. Try reading and check your assumptions.[/quote]
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