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[quote=Anonymous]I saw two suitemate long-distance relationships when I was in college.

One's BF was at a service academy and they solely communicated by hand-written letters (yes, I am a parent now, so times WERE different). It was sweet and old-fashioned, but I think it was a really good way for them to let the other know how they were feeling. If nothing else, maybe ask your son to write down how he's feeling. He doesn't have to send the letter, or even show anyone, but just an idea. Might be a good stress-reliever he can do in a private way.

They lasted most of the year. I remember when she said she was calling to tell him she didn't want to do it anymore. I think they both realized they had changed and it just wasn't going to work.

The other's BF was at a school halfway across the country and she was, yes I will say it, psycho. Sat by the phone waiting for him to call. Would lose her mind if he was even minutes late calling - crying, hysterics, "he's found someone else," etc etc. Poor kid would call and she would absolutely lay into him. He had valid excuses (remember, I'm old so there were no cell phones) - couldn't get to a quiet place, my roommate was here, etc etc.

She ended up transferring (oh yeah) to his college early Sophomore year. They both remained at that school and married two weeks or so after graduation. Marriage lasted all of a year?

I think, like a lot of posters have said - time will be the factor here. She's either going to realize things have changed, or he will. Whether it's at Thanksgiving or earlier, he'll likely look around and realize he wants to start fresh at school and she isn't going to be a part of that (maybe that will happen for her earlier).

You're a good parent for listening, and clearly you have a good relationship with your son since he's talking to you about it. Good luck!! [/quote]

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