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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Get a lawyer. Can you say what state you are in? In VA I was advised not to hurry up and get a job bc I was a stay at home mom who allowed my husband to be successful at his job. She said that it is standard that I get about 50% of his pay after taxes. Again this is in VA and I was married over 20 years. 
I also had a sneak attack lawyer send me divorce papers. There is no worse feeling in the world. I wish I could hug you; it is so so hard. 
Hang in there; if he is mentally unstable you are better off without him. And it sounds like he is either unstable or a complete A-hole. [/quote]

You got terrible legal advice. Please don’t share it further.[/quote]

Why is this horrible legal advice? I was literally sharing my experience. Maybe I had a good lawyer, maybe you don’t know Virginia’s laws, but this is real.[/quote]

OP and I’m not in VA and from the quick look I’ve done I would be ill-advised to even take my kid on a vacation out of state right now, never mind an out of state move. [/quote]

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