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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, if your DH is like mine he may also be controlling and sabotage your attempts to go back to work and/or your job once you get one. For this reason I recommend you look at your finances very carefully right now and document everything and make sure you have joint control. Make sure you have retirement funds in your name and not just a 401k in his name from his job that “you’ll both use when you retire”. No.

If you have any non-marital assets, keep them sequestered. If you have a way to put away tiny amounts of emergency money, you need to.[/quote]

Good advice. She can also work on finding a job or career that he is less able to sabotage. The main way my exDH tried to sabotage me was by refusing to do sick days and to attempt to get out of his share of pick ups/drop offs. The key was to put solid childcare and backup care plans into place, and for me to have a job that had sufficient sick leave. I also put my relational effort into making sure he did equal pick up and drop off. It would be like the ONLY thing I would insist on at home - everything else he could flake on or do half ass, but he needed to do the K drop off every morning.

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