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[quote=Anonymous]Loving couples make an effort to meet each other’s reasonable needs. If I only had sex when I had a genuine and enthusiastic burning desire for it, it would happen 1-2 times a month at best. That’s frequency doesn’t work for my spouse (who is neither lousy in bed nor a lousy spouse more generally) so because I love him and want to make him happy, I make sure it happens twice a week and I take some responsibility for getting myself into a space where I will enjoy it. Sometimes this means I “retire” after dinner to have a glass of wine and a long shower and transition out of mom mode while DH handles kitchen cleanup and any kid needs. Sometimes I ask him to plan a fun night out where I can wear something a little saucy. And fortunately my DH doesn’t have the attitude I see often from men like “hurr durr why should I have to seduce my own wife.” Because when both people work together to meet each other where we are, we both win.[/quote]
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