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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP she is manipulating you! [b]It’s the boomer version of a toddler holding their breath,[/b]  You called her out for bad behavior which made her mad. She’s punishing you by acting hurt and weird. It’s working as now you are over analyzing what you should do. Stop this and just move on as normal.

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+1  My mom does this - any comment that isn't "you're the best" is met with puppy dog eyes and a trembling lip like she's been screamed at by a monster.  My parents beat the living crap out of us growing up, so her now ostentatiously tearing up over being asked to clean up a mess she left in the kitchen doesn't really move me at all.  [/quote]

Same thing here. My mother's current victimhood over every little slight does not move me at all. She can currently behave just like OP's mother did and I can't forget the late night beatings, dragging us out of bed....[/quote]

and i hope you tell her that every single time[/quote]

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