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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So you pushed him to have more kids than he wanted, and you don’t work, and now you want him to share in parenting and you’re surprised he’s not into it?

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OP here. No, having the amount of kids that we do was a joint decision. No one was forced into anything.

[b]Also, I don't understand how a parent, male or female, is excused from parenting duties, no matter their feelings? Guess I'm "old school" there..? 🤷🏼‍♀️[/b]

Lastly, I work my tail off (to put it lightly) to take care of all of our kids. Hardest f*****g job ever and no, I don't get paid but they doesn't take away from the fact that I *do* work, it just isn't outside the home, so it's always dismissed.[/quote]

[/quote] The way you've structured things, his duty is to struggle to bring in 100% of the financial resources your family needs to survive. Your duty is to manage the household and children. If you expect him to share your load, are you planning to bring in money?
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[/quote] oh bullshit!  he can as a member of the family help with cooking (clean up), kids, cleaning.  he is capable of helping.  if my husband and i clean together, it still ends up about  80 20.  i do 80 and he does 20.  it just makes you not feel like a slave.  fi he cleans up after dinner he does about 50% of what should be done.  never all.  any grown man, whether his wife stays at home or not can still contribute to the running of the household.

if you all have plenty of money, hire out some help.  organizer, cleaners, whatever you need to take some of the load off [/quote]

OP here. I have suggested many times to hire an organizer to help us get on top of all the clothing (99% is kids clothing), kitchrware, toys, and tools. He refuses and continues to say it'll be a waste of money and all an "organizer" will do is point and say what we need to do and then we have to be the one to actually do the work. Now, I'm no expert, but I'm pretty sure that's not how that works..[/quote]

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