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[quote=Anonymous][quote]My DH only handles cooking.

I handle everyone's laundry. I am currently unwell and he will do the laundry but it makes my heart weep when I see how grungy and sad the clothes look.

I do everything for kids education. He drives them places during the weekend. I plan, organize, invite, cook, decorate for parties...he does the ice cube run and pours the drinks. I now outsource everything that I can because my DH cannot do what needs to be done.

But, as long as the house is standing, kids are fed and we all are alive, I let it slide. My mom told me that the fact that my DH is not malicious and that I have full control of his money (I am SAHM), and there is no adultery, abuse, addiction in my marriage, and he has zero expectation from me even if sometimes the house is trashed...I should just ignore it. So, I do.[/quote]

You needed to have led with you a SAHM. Once I read that, my expectations regarding what he has to do dropped considerably. Stop weeping and start outsourcing the laundry.

How unwell are you? Cancer treatment unwell? [/quote]

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