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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My parents (I'm a guy) required open doors but also kept their distance when I was in high school, announcing their imminent arrival in a room with loud talking or whatever... as soon as I got to college, the rule was my girlfriend could stay over (she wasnt' local) but she had to stay in her own room. My parents went to bed at 9:45 and asked no questions.

I think that's reasonable.[/quote]

I don’t know about reasonable, but for sure it’s pointless. You might as well close the door and the mom can knock if she needs anything instead of talking loudly by herself on the walkways lol. Believe it or not, that’s what normal people do.

If you’re talking about a college girlfriend, it makes even less sense. I mean, accept the child is an adult, which comes with them having sexual relationships with other adults. Bringing the girlfriend home is about recognizing that relationship in front of the parents. If you’re not ready to accept that, the problem is with the parent and their sexual hangups, which I guess can be respected, but let’s call it like it is. The child still needs to be respectful and discreet, so no loud banging and moaning, but I don’t see any issue with holding hands and kissing in front of the parents.[/quote]

as a former teen boy, I can tell you my parents method kept the action pretty decent—HJs, but no banging. As a former teen boy who dated girls whose parents let them close and lock the door, it very quickly went to places their parents wouldn't approve of. I mean, I guess they did approve of it, but if your goal is to keep kids from having sex in your house, do not let them close or lock the door.

I guess the question is, do you care if they're having sex in your house. 18 year olds are adults, and i would say as long as they AREN'T sucking face in front of their parents, who cares? Nobody should make out in front of other people who aren't, you know, involved. It's just gross. [/quote]

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