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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wish men understood how much more important sex is to women than it is to them. I think women bond through sex far more than men

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Woman here- that is not my experience at all. [/quote]

Man here. Also not my experience at all. [/quote]

Woman here. This is my experience. It was important to both of us when we were younger. During the baby years, it was tricky for me, but I made sure to keep him happy. Now that his libido has tanked and mine hasn’t in midlife, he thinks if he’s happy, everyone’s happy, and I should just deal. I talk to him about it, he either tells me he will do better and then doesn’t, or somehow finds a way to blame me or just be downright annoyed with me. Now we watch TV at night, and some nights I just lie there and cry quietly. He doesn’t know how much I fantasize about other men.  Even though I would never actually cheat on him, it makes me uneasy, as my thoughts have become pretty intense, and I don’t know what the future holds.  Not fair. [/quote]

I can see that.  I’m not in this position, but I can see how it feels more isolating and crazy-making as a woman than it does as a man.  Men are supposed to be in this situation.  Women aren’t.  [/quote]

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