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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Many of the women I’ve seen who vault to the top do so in pursuit of a lifestyle and $ it becomes clear the man isn’t as ambitious to provide if it didn’t just come easily to him. (That is, the man will often be satisfied with good enough/enough money and family balance). Some of them married men hoping they would play this role and when they didn’t or chose not to the women took it on. [/quote]

I’m a woman who has a really lucrative career and my husband’s fizzled out mid career. The explanation is much simpler - I am deeply anxious of a terrible financial tragedy and he is not.[/quote]

Op here.  I think there is something to this.  The women are really the planners and the people looking ahead, anticipating how today’s choices will impact tomorrow.

Also kind of ridiculous how many commenters only saw bread winning inequality - [b]they are just as behind in community building, giving back, creating magical moments and traditions for the family, being gracious hosts. Being interesting. Making the world better.  Even among my husbands friends (those I didn’t know in school) - their wives are 10s, they are…7s at life (not just looks - everything).   These men aren’t failures - nothing close - they just don’t shine a light to their partners. 
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I guess I’m just so damn impressed with my women, friends and all they’ve done   / who they’ve always been / how they killing it - even with dopey partners.  [/quote]

That's your personal opinion. I would bet that these men would disagree with you. I would bet that even most independent observers would disagree with you.
One person's hero is another person's zero. [/quote]

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