Reply to Just came back from Miami ...

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Just came back from Miami ..."

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is insane that people on this forum are trying to characterize women in Miami as gold diggers. Go look at some of the discussions on this forum regarding dating and men’s income/career. Women in DC are obsessed with wealth and social status. At least the women in south Florida try to be attractive. [/quote]

Ehh, women in DC aren't really obsessed with wealth and social status. I'm from NYC and spent 6 years living in Miami but I would say DC is comparatively low key that way. Strivers for sure, but DC isn't really a destination for a woman with a HS education looking to hit it rich with a guy the way other cities are. More likely to be a big law associate or lobbyist who is looking for a comparable male equal.[/quote]

Interesting.

So when a woman in big law or a lobbyist seeks a man with those credentials and money, she is not obsessed with status because she is looking for her "comparable equal". When a woman with a HS education does it, she is obsessed.

Are engineers and accountants making 150K equals to this woman in big law? Or is there a salary and specific grad degree that defines these "comparable equal" men?
[/quote]

Of course a 20 yo looking for money from much older men is a gold digger. 
Professional women not wanting to financially support lousy husbands has nothing in common with it. They just stay single till they find it or forever. They don’t fly to Miami to bare their tits to find a man. 
Equal means the same income at least and the same intelligence 
[/quote]

150K is plenty of income. Anyone focusing solely on men making more than that is obsessed with income and status. One can make good money and still be obsessed with money. And engineers and accountants are just as intelligent as lawyers. So if "comparable" was the goal for these older women, there would be plenty of options in these professions. It's an obsession with money and status. It does not matter if younger women or older women are doing it. Women in general, rich or poor, prefer men with power, money and status.  Neither their education level or wealth reduces that preference or "obsession" as you put it.

[/quote]

150k is not enough burrowing capacity or savings to afford a good house in DC; no international vacations; no good cars; no sports like golf or gym memberships . Men making $150k have a very different lifestyle from mine and I don’t want to finance them while in a relationship. They can find a woman making $150k or less. [b]But for some reason men also look for higher earner women in DC[/b]. [/quote]

To the bolded: You know why. It's because everyone loves money. You don't deserve a rich man any more than the pretty girls in Miami chasing older men for it just because you are highly educated and rich. In fact they need the rich man more than you do. 😆

[/quote]

The girls in Miami are used for sex; very few marry these rich men. The men go home to their equally educated well earning wives. Assortative mating is a thing  [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics