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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How are you going to pay for college?[/quote]

Not OP but parent of 4 kids here.  It's a mix of things.  First, my father opened 529s for each child and is regularly contributing.  His trust directs his trustee to make sure each account reaches $200K (should he pass away before fully funding each account).  He's also opened an UTMA account for each kid with about $50K.  My FIL opened an UTMA account for each kid with $30K.

I separately opened my own 529s for each kid.  I super funded each one at $75K at birth.  That set us on a good foundation for the first five years.  Then we contribute as needed.  I don't want to overfund, and the beauty of having four kids is that if one gets a scholarship or takes a path other than college, I can just redirect those 529 funds to another sibling.

We have over $1M in equity in our home, so that's a nice back up plan if needed.

We also own a lot of rental properties worth maybe $3 or $4M in real estate value, I could sell one of those if needed - especially if one of my kids goes to grad school and I don't want them to take on debt.[/quote]

You don’t owe this explanation to anyone.  Honestly with the wide range of sky is the limit incomes in this area I don’t know why anyone doubts that if they can afford 2 children, many can afford 4.  Also, I say this as someone will will be able to pay for college 100%, but I’m skeptical of the idea that you shouldn’t have a child if you can’t pay for college.  DCUM is an UMC/wealthy bubble but that would squeeze a lot of real people out of have even 1 child.  Also…. Not everyone goes to college.[/quote]

No they don't but trade schools cost money to you should be paying for your kids  post high school education .and not hoping they get loans and scholarships having a bunch of kids or e even one kid because you want one and can't afford it is friggin selfish. You wouldn't get a dog you couldn't care for it should be the same for kids [/quote]

So are you also upset about the millions of kids on Medicaid and receiving SNAP benefits?  Do you go to low income housing developments and shame them for having kids?  They are, as you say, “friggin selfish”? How do you feel about the illegal immigrants who come here with nothing but the clothes on their backs - they are also “friggin selfish”?  Because none of these people - MILLIONS of people - are going to be able to pay for their kid to go to even community college.

But sure let’s focus on the OP who already stated she and her husband work. And I doubt she meant double shifts at Taco Bell. [/quote]

I think you might be a little generous in assuming that the pp doesn’t think this way.  
I don’t think you have to worry about her doing it, though.  I doubt she would set foot in a low income housing development or a domestic violence shelter.  
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