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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, are you sure he isn’t gay? I had a friend whose husband had similar “off” behaviors and concerns and it turned out he realized he is gay. They had children as well. They ended up divorcing and through much therapy for all, they are in a much better place. Strangely he now also has a better relationship with the kids than he did when they were living as a family. [/quote]

OP here. I would be 1,000,000% shocked if he was. He only talks with other guys (co-workers, people he has befriended online due to shared interests/hobbies).

He definitely likes s*x with me, and I am a woman, so.. I think it's pretty farfetched. After I confronted him about being a misogynist, he insisted he is not, so I don't know, I guess..[/quote]

Anyone who thinks rape is funny ( especially with daughters) is f’d in the head. Do you expect him to admit to you that he is f’d in the head? [/quote]

OP here.

Rationally, no, I don't, and he defended his messages and memes, which I was expecting.

I'm just having an extremely hard time with the fact that I wasn't meant to see the messages, but did, and know that, despite what he says, he has to connect and agree with what he said on some level.

Had I not seen them, I would have gone on, still being unhappy for various other reasons, but not thinking about him in an awful new light.

He was the main driver of all of the content, and after I confronted him, he took a "week off" and what he has sent, hasn't been in that nature for now.

It just completely creeps me out thinking that I missed the signs and red flags all this time..[/quote]

Sorry, OP. I sounds like you made your point and probably won't be confronted with it again.  Hopefully, you can move forward and eventually let it go.  [/quote]

OP here. I appreciate your reply.[/quote]

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