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Reply to "If you had an affair that lasted longer than a year, tell me about it"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote]It started as an emotional affair for a very long time then moved to physical. I dont feel like I am leading a double life. It’s another person that brings a lot of joy, care and happiness to my life. My marriage isn’t unhappy but definitely missing things that AP provides. I feel like I’ve spent my entire life doing things for other people and at my age I am finally choosing myself. I used to think it was a moral failing but realistically life/ marriage is long and complicated and I am at peace with my decisions. Others can judge and I understand that. [/quote] I appreciate you posting an answer to the OP's post. There is no reason for posters to come to this thread to blast people for replying to it. My question is: Would you care if your DH was having an affair as well? I mean, if you found that he was getting something he felt he was missing from your marriage. I ask because, after my divorce, I dated a woman who was married, and I asked her this same question. Her reply surprised me. She said that she would be hurt that he didn't want to work on providing her with what was missing in their marriage. Hearing this was enough for me to end it. If she had said that he was entitled to the same fun she was having, it would have made more sense to me.[/quote]
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