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[quote=Anonymous]I’d focus less on the specific decision and more on how the two of you make life decisions . Are you able to discuss the pros and cons of such decisions for each person and the relationship and make a decision that’s best overall, or is he just issuing ultimatums? Marriage is a series of hard decisions and compromises, but if you start out with ultimatums of “my way or the highway” you are setting yourselves up for long-term failure. But also be wary of promises that “this time you take the compromise and next time I will,” because if you set back your career now, there is a risk that it will always take second place to his career. It’s truly hard to equally prioritize two careers over the course of a marriage. It can be done, but it takes a lot of intentional communication and sacrifice by both people. [/quote]
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