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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I got offered an amazing job that will boost my career and open the doors for a better opportunity. The position is another state for two years. My boyfriend of 1.5 years doesn’t want me to go. He flat out told me he loves me and doesn’t want to wait for two years to start our lives together. He is ready to marry me and start a family and I have to decide if I want be with him or choose my career. I feel like I will lose in some way whichever I choose. I don’t know if I will find another guy I want to marry or how this will affect my career. I don’t want to choose. [/quote]

If YOU don't want to choose, and HE is making you choose, HE is NOT the right man for you. Full stop.

Go grab the amazing job and have the doors of better opportunities opened to you. Trust me when I tell you that if you don't, not very long down the road you'll be staring down the barrel of a mediocre marriage to a selfish whinging arsehole for whom you gave up the best opportunities of your life and you'll hate yourself for it.

There are 4 billion men out there - the vast majority of them are not worth sacrificing a rich, full life with career, family, friends, children if you choose or not, travel, relocations, career changes etc. dictated by your own desires/needs and not by perpetually compromising your dreams to feed a grown a** man's fragile ego.[/quote]

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