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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wouldn't describe that as "wild" on its own. Can you provide more examples?[/quote]

OP here. It’s just that he generally has a go with the flow live in the moment attitude. He also has ADHD which I assume contributes. He’s also very stubborn  and generally feels entitled to do as he pleases often.

I think not coming home after going out is a problem. We are married. I don’t mind that he has fun, but he shouldn’t over do things to the point that he’s not coming home until the next morning and not calling.          [/quote]

Twice a YEAR? Come on. You know this about him. Show him some grace. Demand that you know where he is but if he needs to stay over (again twice a year?) then stop being so tightly wound. If kids are involved or you genuinely think he has developed a drinking problem then say something. Otherwise, stop being so uptight. Otherwise, decide now, before kids, that you aren't well suited and divorce. Seriously. He very well might decide that he would prefer a partner who can also be extroverted. [/quote]

show him some grace for being irresponsible, a liar, and possibly a cheat? Grace is for honest mistakes, not habitual poor choices.

Enjoy being a doormat, pp. [/quote]

Disappearing for the night and drinking a lot ……leave him or don’t plan on having kids. I see misery and you taking on 100% of everything once the kids come.

+3 voting that he’s cheating. I had this happen. It’s cheating. [/quote]

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