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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He pushed her over the age and she had a mental break.  It sounds like typical Narc behavior and gaslighting.

I’m sure she dealt with the emotional/psychological abuse for years.

I’m a very very strong woman who people joked wouldn’t put up with cr@p and I was reduced to a shell of my old self 20-years into marriage. Walking on eggshells, managing spouse’s moods, protecting the kids, being/looking perfect (due to threats), putting out when I didn’t want too after ugliness and drunken insults.

Then finding out about an affair and constant threats of divorce….i went loco for a few weeks. Luckily, I held it together for my kids and nobody outside the home was any wiser—minus the one good couple friends I confided in. Even my own family has no idea.

And he always played the charming great loving husband to everyone outside the home. People would tell me how jealous they were that I had such a great husband.

This really set off alarm bells for me.  He filed and she had this reaction —he will blame it on her “going crazy/being unstable”.[/quote]

You posted a lot in relationships and you are certifiable.
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DP here and I don't post in the Relationships forum-- but I could have written that post. Nothing she has written here seems crazy to me. It is exactly my experience. Cheaters operate from the same playbook. If you don't understand that, you have not experienced it and attribute the fact that you have not experienced it to the idea that you are smarter and make better decisions, and you know what- god bless you. This reality is very ugly and soul crushing and I hope it never happens to you or your children.[/quote]

Add me to the list! This is exactly my experience as well with a Narc. I also could have written that post word for word. They operate out of the same playbook.  Good lord, I want to hug that PP and you too. We’ve all been through it.  So many women could (and men too, women can also be malignant narcissists. I can think of one very famous one now who has reduced her husband to rubble) People have no idea how being married to narcissist can drive you to the absolute brink of insanity. Add in 20 years of psychological emotional abuse in marriage and a healthy dose of perimenopause and you get a woman who is shattered melting down and fed up. And he intentionally gets to look sane, reputation destroying is part of the Narc playbook.  People who have personality disorders like Narcissism can not be cured. There are no meds for them. They are dangerous manipulative and destructive for life.  So Kelly wherever you are, women who’ve been through this see you, you’ve got this!!![/quote]

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