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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yet another post where a selfish and nasty DIL seeks affirmation from other selfish and nasty DILs that it’s cool to treat your ILs heartlessly and like shit.  (And let me save responders the trouble, no, I am not a mother-in-law so responses such as “here comes self-involved boomer mother-in-law” are not relevant.)

There is no way to tell the in laws that they can’t come for the birthdays for several days in either direction because the other parents are visiting.  That’s just so incredibly rude and obnoxious and extremely hurt feelings would not only be inevitable but entirely justified.  I mean, WTF?  OP, ask your parents what they’d think if the shoe was on the other foot.  Yes, your parents are coming from abroad, but the ILs don’t live down the street either.

And the other poster who uses the opportunity to tell her irrelevant anecdote about her parents coming to stay for a week? That’s not the case here.

Finally, if your kids don’t want the in-laws coming for their birthday, you know what, so the F what. Teach them to show some respect.

The answer to your childish dilemma is perfectly clear: grow up. Reach out to the in-laws, tell them you would love to have them like every other year, but this year is a little complicated space wise and would they mind staying in a hotel for the night? If they can’t handle that, then I’ll cut you some slack. But please, be the adult in the room. That sounds like it might be a new experience for you.[/quote]

OMG, Linda, calm down. You’re going to have another stroke. Go have a second, mid-morning martini and have a nice lie-down.[/quote]

You sound like a man. [/quote]

Thank you. If the alternative is to sound like a woman-hating woman, like the PP, then I would rather sound like a man. “Another selfish and nasty DIL,” eh? Gee, I wonder if PP is a MIL who hates her DIL. It’s such a complex mystery… :lol: [/quote]

It’s laughable how you have me all wrong in terms of age, gender and family relationships.

But what’s really amazing is that it’s fine for y’all to pile on on MILs and insult them with every name in the book, but when the table is turned and you’re called out for being just as nasty as the MIL you’re dissing you get all worked up.

DCUM is full of posts where women talk terribly about their in laws, especially their mothers-in-law.  Just remember, what goes around comes around. [/quote]

Sure, Jan. [/quote]

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