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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would have thought more people would just respond that it’s because their hormonal desire is low. Statistically, the majority of women dont have natural day to day drive.  I’d assume that’s the driving factor in the majority of cases, and all the other things above are just “excuses” that are covering up for the fact that you’re not naturally horny anymore. [/quote]

Speaking as a woman who is very dissatisfied in her marriage (husband only focuses on himself and his hobbies, doesn't ever have any meaningful talk with me, doesn't play with the kids or help with their needs, always on his phone or computer, treats internet strangers and acquaintances better than his family, doesn't look at me when I speak to him, etc etc)...

We want sex, just NOT with our lazy, purposeful emotionally unavailable husbands..

And THAT'S the painful, uncomfortable truth..[/quote]

I think this is probably more true than just “low hormonal desire.”

I’ve been married to my spouse for 40 years. No problems with low hormones, no sense of boredom or lack of novelty. Mutual love and caring, knowing each other’s bodies really well, having a deep trust in each other- these are the reasons we’ve been able to have a fun and frequent sex life for more than four decades.

But if we’d had issues such as many others here have described, things would likely be different. It’s hard to love and trust someone who doesn’t show caring for you, and it’s hard to have sex with someone who doesn’t treat you in a loving way. [/quote]

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