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[quote=Anonymous]The things you want are not unreasonable, but expecting to negotiate them like your marriage is some kind of business merger is. As others have pointed out this sort of transactional approach to a relationship won’t work. This will encourage you both to keep mental spreadsheets of your demands and then you’ll be blaming each other when you don’t get the thing you think the negotiation entitled you to. It’s an exhausting way to live and it virtually guarantees future conflicts. What you need to do is realize you are both on the same team and figure out how to help one another. [/quote]
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