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[quote=Anonymous]I don't really understand why you think he would see, value or respect what you do and contribute when you don't see, value or respect what he does and contributes. In every post you minimize or dismiss everything he does for the family. You are the SAHP so yes most of the childcare and domestic work falls on you - that is your contribution to the family. His is all the financial responsiblity and ensuring the families needs are met. Yours is the hands on help. That is a traditional family model and traditional gender roles. Neither of you wants to form any kind of connection with the other or meet the others needs. You went outside the marriage and cheated. You are both resentful and reactive. There is no moral highground for you here. You want something from him that you aren't willing to give him yourself. [/quote]
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