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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My MIL lives in another country, and is a hoarder. She’s even left stuff in our house. Seems like she will not be travelling to visit us anymore, due to health issues. I told my husband we should donate her stuff, or tell my kids to sell the stuff on ebay. He seems to fear her wrath and does not want to deal with any if it, and it drives me crazy. I guess at some point, I will be able to pull a “I told you so”!.

Her bedroom in her house is packed with clothes. I told my husband  to not ask me to help out with her stuff because I will chuck it all. Plus, I am taking care of my mother with alzheimer in our house, in the States. Everytime her children bring up the issue, she lashes out at them.

I am grateful my mother moved a few times after she turned 60, so she didn’t have a lot of stuff when we moved her in with us.

I feel for them, but it is their battle for now. [/quote]

So, your mom is welcome but you belittle your MIL?  Who cares about her house in another country. You can get rid of it all when she dies.  When my mom died and we were cleaning out her house, we found a lot of boxes unopened….QVC.  It was a bright spot opening the box to see what she ordered.  We donated and trashed what we didn’t want. [/quote]

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