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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dealing with the right now. we have been saying for 6 years at every opportunity that my FIL (divorced, lived alone in house with a ton of stairs) needed to go into assisted living. As predicted, he took a bad fall and has been hospitalized and will never go home and we are stuck dealing with the hoarding situation in his house, his new medical issues because he never went to the doctor, and figuring out the finances. DH is an only and it is a six hour drive but FIL's wish is to stay there. We both have very busy jobs, 2 elementary aged kids, and it's about to be summer. [/quote]

If you knew there were issues, why didn't one of you occassionally visit and take him to the doctor.  It would be very hard on his own if he has mobility issues and doesn't drive.  You are clear you don't want to be bothered so he's best there.[/quote]

To the PP- you are a nasty, vile person who deserves all the negativity you put out into the world right back to you x1000. You have no idea about their situation and it’s none of your business to attack them in their time of need. [/quote]

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