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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP and currently dealing with this scenario except we’re older and new empty nesters.

I’ve had a recent (minor) health diagnosis concurrent with earlier menopause and so revamped my diet and exercise and nutrition
going on five years now. DH nearly opposite-eating/sleeping/drinking and lack of activity and exercise. Refuses to ever go running/hiking or even walking with me.

“Trains” (huge flurry of activity) ahead of golfing or skiing rather than continual exercise. 
Used to play an intramural sport but now says -you guessed it-has to “get back in shape” or train ahead of re joining the team.

DH has 55+ pounds to lose. Snores like a freight train. I’ve kicked him out of our room months ago. Sent him to doctor for sleep apnea diagnosis/physical. Blood tests came back fine and nothing mentioned about his weight and vague suggestion to get a sleep study.

I’ve said nothing. No comments. He might be close to making some changes as he’s taken to counseling and coaching our athletic DC (he’s a former college athlete) and can’t fully participate physically.

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Jeez, just get rid of him already!  So lazy![/quote]

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