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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm not sharing all the complete, exact information, dates, etc. because I'm almost positive that he comes on here. The order for the test is dated from before I ever had symptoms (I have a reason to chalk symptoms like that up to other things and had no reason to be super worried--mostly because I assumed I had been exposed only to him in over 25 years). It just so happens I found the test order recently--months after the "episode."[/quote]

He cheated. I'm sorry.

I thought I had an STD about a year ago. I readily told my DH about it, because [b]under very rare circumstances you can get it from things other than sexual contact[/b] -- and I knew for sure I hadn't had any sexual contact. DH is asexual and hasn't been interested in years, and I wasn't doing it with anyone else.

My point is that if you think you need an STD test, and know you aren't guilty, it's not the kind of thing you hide. It's the "This is so weird! I think I have this! WTF?" Or, alternatively, given that you are sexually active, it's the "We really need to talk, I'm having these symptoms and need to know what the hell is going on...are you cheating?" conversation. Either way, it's not kept secret. If it's kept secret ... he's cheating.

Get yourself to the doctor. [/quote]

Uhh, only extraordinarily gullible people fall for this.  This is like...never true.  Your "asexual" husband was totally having sex with men.[/quote]

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