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Have you tried being more kinky? For example wearing a dress and no panties on and whispering in his ears about it, or lifting your dress to show him or asking him to feel your wet vagina.

I am not trying to be "fresh" but we are adults here and sex is healthy and amazing. And when you have a spouse sex is even more exciting because there is no limit to experimenting as long as both are comfortable [/quote]

I think it's fair to assume that if a woman is writing here about a sexual imbalance in her long term relationship, she's tried all the obvious stuff. If I tried what you suggested with my no-libido husband, his reaction would likely be devastating. Not on purpose; he wouldn't want to hurt me. It's just that his mind isn't there, and attempting to yank it where I want it would be jarring for him, resulting in a startled reaction, an uncomfortable laugh, and no sex.

And that's the thing... Initiating sex comes with the possibility that you will be rejected. Gently, kindly, of course, but rejected all the same. Or almost worse, that you'd be indulged, but with no interest from him. The more that happens, the more vulnerable you feel, and the harder the rejection hits. 
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