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[quote=Anonymous]So, my husband didn’t come to any doctors visits besides the first one and then the anatomy scan. I didn’t even consider asking him to. Why would he take time off work for that? He doesn’t come to my other doctors appointments either.

Some men get very- overly- involved in their wife’s pregnancies and say things like “we’re pregnant!” and seem to enjoy doing things like going to the store at midnight to buy ice cream and other cliche things because they really get a kick out of the whole thing. That’s fine, but I’d have been annoyed if my husband did that sort of thing. I’m pregnant, not him. His role as “husband to the pregnant woman” is not more important than my role of “pregnant person” and some husbands really seem to try to make it all about them.

If your back hurts and you want a back rub, ask for one! If he says no then he’s a jerk. In terms of sex, maybe he thinks you’re uncomfortable with it. I didn’t like having sex once I got really big. It was uncomfortable for me and I was tired. But again- communicate! If you want your husband to dote on you and bring you flowers and rub your feet for 9 months then tell him that. But honestly- you’re pregnant, not dying of cancer. [/quote]

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