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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What are you going to do when your kid isn't perfect?   When your kid doesn't behave exactly how you want?   When they aren't how you want them to be?   [/quote]

I’m fine with that. My child doesn’t go be perfect. I don’t expect people to be perfect. I just like things like cooking, a party I throw, my home, etc., to be perfect. I want to have the most perfect welcome home for our baby.
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OP you need to change.  Your perfectionism is bad for your family.  Listen to your husband and learn to work with the curveballs life throws you. [/quote]

I would look at the husband’s suggestions with positive intent instead of thinking he’s just trying to change you OP. He’s telling you “this isn’t working for our family“ and with kindness he wants to help you feel better/do better. It is mentally exhausting to live with someone with perfectionism, OCD, anxiety. Especially when untreated. I would look at his suggestion as a gift and if you don’t hede it, he may be asking for a divorce in the future.  [/quote]

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