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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Perfectionism is a weakness, a character flaw. We have all flaws but if yours is perfectionism, then it is time to work on it. Maybe with a therapist if you haven’t been able to change it on your own. It is something you should want to change. It is a flaw that negatively affects you and those around you. [/quote] It’s a trait that exists on a spectrum, like narcissism. Often healthy, but it can cause issues when out of balance. OP, I think the recommendation to speak with a therapist is apt. Not because there’s something wrong with you, but because you’re more resilient than you realize, and life—being full of joy and grief—can feel tumultuous when we aren’t aware of our own strength. Getting better acquainted with our capability for dealing with challenges builds self-trust and more ease. Best wishes to you. [/quote]
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