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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What are you going to do when your kid isn't perfect?   When your kid doesn't behave exactly how you want?   When they aren't how you want them to be?   [/quote]

I’m fine with that. My child doesn’t go be perfect. I don’t expect people to be perfect. I just like things like cooking, a party I throw, my home, etc., to be perfect. I want to have the most perfect welcome home for our baby.
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Aren’t you already upset with your child for being born the wrong way?

I mean, I don’t think that you are going to expect a toddler to keep her room clean, but what about when she keeps you from doing the things you want to do?  Like giving birth the way you planned or breastfeeding or cleaning your house the way you want to?[/quote]

I’m not upset with my baby. I’m upset with the circumstances but that’s it. It’s really weird how you keep assuming things. [/quote]

Your kid will absolutely absorb your disappointment growing up and it will destroy their self esteem.   Not to mention your marriage will likely not survive.  Get help.  We all come with baggage and it manifests when life gets rough but if you choose not to get help for it then it’s not your husband or kids’ job to stick around for your toxic behavior. [/quote]

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