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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The three kids is what really blows my mind. I am in Chicago, and the professionals that wanna live in the city routinely stop at two kids.

I wonder if it’s a case that they are having the third to finally get a much wanted boy or girl.[/quote]

Well then she is a lawyer, apparently a good one, so you have to plan for that and make decisions.  Choosing to have a 3rd means housing gets much more expensive/it's really challenging to live in only a 2 bedroom anymore.

I always tell people considering a 3rd (after two boys or two girls) to be very certain the reason they are having a 3rd is because they actually want a 3rd, not because they want the other sex finally.  Because of the 10+ friends I know with 3 (where the first two are the same sex), only 1 got the opposite.

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Oh, I completely agree. I just do not understand having a third kid in a major American city unless you’re willing to make concessions like living in the suburbs and/or going to public schools.

Only the truly wealthy get to have three or more kids in the city, have a nice five bedroom home, top-of-the-line private schools, etc. [/quote]

I agree!  Unless you can actually afford it, I'm not sure squeezing 3 kids into 1 bedroom in the city is a good idea.  Once they hit teen years they need some form of privacy, so I'd put at most 2 kids in a room.  But in reality, I'd want to move to a house in the burbs and let them all have their own room.  We now live in a city in a 2bed/2bath place that is 1500 sq ft, so large for NYC standards, and when it's just the 2 of us it's great.  More than a few weeks with one kid and it's crowded, add in the 2nd kid for even 3-4 days and it's too much (but then again they grew up in a house with their own rooms).

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