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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would not factor student loan debt into my decision of who to date for marriage. As long as she was not ignoring it.[/quote] I would. I guarantee if men were the ones with the debt women will absolutely use it as a factor. But since they are the ones with the debt we have to ignore their debt.[/quote] I’ve seen at least one other response that matches this, but my DH had about $150k in loan debt when I married him and was more or less unpaid at the time as he was earning his PhD. I had a low paying job at the time too, but no debt (in fact, savings due to an inheritance). But I trusted his PhD was a good investment and would help him get a better job and also I value education and academic pursuits so it aligned with my values. [/quote]
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