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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I would take a back seat. It's up to your boyfriend to notify his ex that he's planning to introduce the kids to you. At that time he says, "You of course are welcome to meet with her first, per our plan." Let her set it up and set the location. This is just my instinct to indicate to her that you are not planning to insert yourself into the family in any kind of aggressive or too-speedy way. Like many women, you are putting a lot of thought and emotional labor into this, and while that's your choice, it's also not what is required of you in this situation. And it's probably not going to impress an ex who is making snide comments or texting about your car (to clarify, has she done that in the recent past or just in the beginning?). The best way to show you come in peace is to go with the flow. [/quote]
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