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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]First clue was Find my showed him at an apartment when he was supposed to be somewhere else but he proceeded to gaslight me and I believed him.  Then came the STD and looking back many of the things already described (always putting phone face down, suddenly angry over nothing, improved dressing, working out, focusing on looks). [/quote]

I saw my ex on Find My at his AP's apartment at 11 pm, only 2 days before I gave birth. He claimed he was helping her move furniture. It takes a certain kind of sociopath to leave an 8-month pregnant wife for an AP.  A week after I got home from the hospital, police stopped by looking for him at 7 pm because someone had reported him for harassment, and he wasn't home. The cop didn't believe me when I said he wasn't home - what kind of man isn't home with his wife and newborn at 7 pm?  It still took me another 6 months to get enough conviction to start talking about what was going on with a therapist and my parents, and then another 6 months to file.  [/quote]
Mine begged me to have a second baby a year earlier than we had planned/than I wanted to. We had a long deep convo about it and he seemed so genuinely excited for another that I thought about it and agreed. Turns out his affair started 2 months before he came to me begging for another baby, lasted all of my pregnancy, postpartum, and I found out when my little one was 1 year old.[/quote]
So why did he push for the second kid?[/quote]

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