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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]op, I got mad at both.  The way I handled my anger with him was, divorce.  I do understand that he felt he had his reasons - he was angry with me, felt rejected, blah blah blah.  He had his grudges against me.  Still doesn't make it OK, but as a human being I get where he was coming from.  I will never forgive him for being such a selfish ass and doing this to our family.  I'm disappointed and disgusted with him.  But, we have to co parent and function so, bygones.

Her?  She pretended to be my friend.  She was a guest in my home.  When she moved here from a warm climate I gave her a warm winter coat.  She slept here when her AC was on the fritz.  I let her babysit my BABY.  We exchanged christmas presents.  I gave her rides to the bus stop when she lost her license for DUI.  She had no reason to hurt me.  She knew he was married, knew he had a baby - and chose to participate in the destruction of my life anyway.  I can't understand the selfishness and cruelty of a person who does that.  As a woman, as a mother, as a divorcee, I would think she would have a little more sympathy and not destroy another woman like that.  Oh, and she liked to go on and on about what a "Christian" she is.  (I don't claim to be one).

So yeah, him, I tolerate.  Have to for my kids.  Her, I hope she will burn in the most fiery pit of hell.  Which would be consistent with HER beliefs, as an adulterer.  "What God has joined together, let no one put asunder".  [/quote]

You have every right to be mad at both of them. She made it personal when she didn't have to. Are they still together?

I'm afraid to say that I have noticed a disturbing trend of divorced women who were cheated on and later are involved with married men. These were women I highly respected so I was definitely shocked. I think somewhere in their brains, they are competing to win back someone they "lost" through other people's husbands. One of my friends was going this route up until recently. All the men who who were chasing her were married or seriously involved and I think it made her feel wanted again. She never got intimate, though one guy in particular kissed her suddenly and she didnt seem to hate it. She also didn't go out of her way to avoid him thereafter until recently. All the guys were unhappily married good guys (yea, right), much older (we're in our 20s), very generous to her. She fortunately walked away from each scenario before it got physical. I've seen another divorced women play with forbidden fruit too. Sadly, a close family friend spent 15 years with a married man and has a child with him. His wife eventually left him only for her to finally realize he wasn't a prize at all a few years later. I feel for his wife as she did everything "right" in life (married her one and only, church-going, stayed for the kids). My family member basically duplicated what happened in her failed marriage, including the extramarital child.
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I have never been interested in married men and lose respect for men who are willing to cheat on their wives.[/b][/quote]

Does it not occur to the OW who is involved with a married man, that he can do it to them, too?  Are these women that desperate?[/quote]

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