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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Say hey to my husband.  He's not the prize you think he is.  [/quote]

Female here.

You're clearly not a prize either  Otherwise he wouldn't be out cheating.

Men cheat for one for one reason, their wives do not have sex with them often or enough.  I find my marriage is best when we are having sex regularly.  So I make time for it. [/quote]

I’m the quoted PP.  You’re right.  I’m not.  He had zero interest in having sex with me and made that quite clear — to the point of faking injuries.  Go ahead and imagine that I’m the most hideous beast you can imagine and blame me for that, too.  I promise I’ve heard it already.

He’s still not a prize.  [/quote]

Oh honey. You deserve dignity and honesty and kindness and love [I]because you are a human being.[/I]

You know who's not a prize? A person who can't exit a relationship with honesty and dignity. A person who uses others for their jollies. A person who leads on desperate people for sex. A person who lies to get what they want. A person who thinks relationships should be transactional.

Anyone who looks at a person doing all of that and thinks they're the best they can do deserves our pity. They can't conceive of a healthy relationship with two people being their best selves. And that's sad. [/quote]

Relationships are complex and sex is more than just “jollies” for some people. And some people don’t realize that until middle age.

People can maintain strong healthy primary relationships based on pragmatic, economic goals and also have sordid affairs. It is possible.

It just takes a lot more maturity than most of DCUM wants to believe because they want the upper middle class fantasy. [/quote]

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